i got called out for my over use of the word "and" in my work. i know i use it too much, but i don't see it as a problem, it makes my work stand out. it's easier to identify my work if i have certain quirks. i didn't say anything back because i disagreed with her. in this case my use of and was to link a list of two things together. someone else got snipey and said they had no idea what i was talking about. i was listing purple things. i don't expect every one to get it. it was for a contest. but most of the feedback i get is really great. very positive.
i answered a few of my POF inquiries back today. there was one, a poet and writer who likes to go out. very promising. i wrote back to him. i can't believe they blocked my messages. that just blows me away. stupid fucks. i got one response from a chef who is looking for someone to hang out with after work at night. i'm up then, but i want to hang out in the evenings and not with someone who smells like food all the time. so i didn't write back. i'm not looking for a guy to have heart to hearts with over beers and pool. though that would be cool. if i met someone who could understand boundaries.
why is there no dating site for straight women and gay men? that's what i really need. some gay men. i was born to be a hag. someone should look into that.