i spaced doc's birthday again this year. it was yesterday. and i thought it was today. so i worked all day yesterday and then we went out to dinner with M. during dinner, M wished doc a happy birthday. i felt so low.
doc never wants a big deal made of his birthday, but having his partner forget it every couple of years can't be good.
at least i let him alone to have time to himself yesterday. that's probably the best gift i can give him